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Now parents want to work hard for the cause, for their livelihood bustle, lack of child care time, so while boarding kindergartens expensive, but parents still rush. Parents feel that children, "boarding", independence has been tempered, self-care ability has been enhanced interpersonal intelligence will be promoted. However, no one noticed, "boarding" the harm caused to the child.

"four sins":

a story from the "General" to "Soldier"

3-year-old at home is Shuoyibuer "bully" and sometimes your mind up, any one person can stop him. For example, he said, should go to bed watching cartoons, to listen to a story before they turn off the lights, then we must do the job. Zhengang parents are businessman, did not have time to take care of, discipline him, grandfather, grandmother to Zhengang parents often complain: everything at home listening to this child's command, as if he was a general, we are his soldiers. He was too have an idea, too headstrong, so go incredible.

speaker proffering. Zhengang parents believed to Zhengang present situation, it is necessary to put him in boarding kindergartens, let him learn the way to get along with people, but also to learn more knowledge. So they monthly to a private boarding a local nursery to pay 2000 yuan, the Zhengang "boarding" up.

After some time, Zhengang really changed, became very well-behaved, obedient, and even learned to read cue.

Once Zhengang be back from my father, and grandfather, grandmother watching TV and saw on TV a lion chasing sheep lens. Grandpa and Grandma deliberately tease him: "Look, the big dog really powerful, the lambs running around chasing too." "Yes ah, that was the big dog, big dogs are bad." Unexpectedly, Zhengang even echoed: "Of course, afraid of the big dog of the lamb, and, it may be shepherd it." grandparents took him in his arms: "Silly boy, it was a lion Yeah, you do not know lions do? '" is the lion do? " Small Zhengang struggled looked away, looked carefully: "Really it is a lion, and the lion king, like it." So, grandparent and grandchild all three laughed.

Zhengang parents feel that sending children into boarding nursery is a absolutely the right thing. Now,Quickly save your home boarding Baby, let's go to bed when he,coach2013夢幻新款目錄, when he slept, although sometimes there are different opinions, but as long as adults a little forced, immediately complied with, despite dissatisfaction, but there will be no objection.

"'boarding' Well," Grandpa sigh, "Put Zhengang childhood 'General' becomes a little 'soldiers'!"

Zhengang's father heard this, my heart feels strange. After all, there is a strong-minded generals, while the soldiers but is duty-bound to obey orders. He was a businessman, some of which are vaguely felt something wrong, but where exactly is wrong, but have no idea ......

insinuations: It seems in many parents, children, "boarding",coach2013夢幻新款目錄, will become a cooperative, will change his bad habits. In fact, this is only one aspect, the other aspect is that in the "boarding" kindergarten teacher as an adult, children's activities always control the process and outcome evaluation, is the absolute authority, and that teachers themselves will soon specify a Like a child, by him to lead the life of the activities and the House take care of themselves, other children on the initiative into a tie, gradually lost the autonomy of thinking, failing to love later reduced, while the nursery because management needs , but also give encouragement to this retreat, over time, children naturally depending on the lack of independent thinking as normal. This hidden damage in the child's growth process gradually presented.

surface features: concentration to failing not assertive.

occurred hours: after admission.